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Children and AI: What Every Parent Needs to Know Right Now

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 A few weeks ago, my son asked our home assistant what the fastest animal on land was. It answered instantly. He nodded, satisfied, and moved on. My daughter, meanwhile, was upstairs using an app that had quietly adjusted its reading difficulty to match her pace — without her noticing, without me noticing, without anyone making a decision about it. Neither of them typed a search term. Neither of them opened a browser. And neither of them thought of it as using artificial intelligence. But that is exactly what it was. If you have children at home, this is almost certainly already happening in your house too. According to a May 2026 survey of over 1,000 US parents conducted by Lurie Children’s Hospital, 34% say their children are already using AI tools — with an average starting age of ten. But that number almost certainly undercounts reality, because it does not include the AI that children encounter without anyone realising it is there. This post is not about whether to let y...
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How to Help Your Adult Kid Financially Without Becoming the Bank: 5 Moves Before You Set Any Limits

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 A couple of weeks after my last piece, I called my sister-in-law Karen about something unrelated — a holiday plan that was getting complicated. Halfway through the call, the conversation drifted, the way these calls do, and she mentioned, almost off-handedly, that she still hadn't talked to Hannah about the phone bill. "I keep meaning to bring it up," she said. "And then I think — what would I even say?" I sat with that question for a long time after we hung up. Because I realized that's the actual question. Not whether to keep helping. Not how much. But how do you START the conversation when nothing's broken and the help has been quiet for years? Last week I wrote about the five hidden categories most parents don't recognize as support   — the phone lines, the insurance, the streaming logins, the "I'll just pay" moments that quietly add up to nearly $1,500 a month for the average American family that's supporting an adult ch...
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The Quiet Subsidy: What American Parents Are Really Paying For Their Adult Kids in 2026

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 I was paying the family phone bill on a Wednesday morning, coffee going cold next to me, when I noticed something I'd been looking at for years without seeing. Five lines on the plan. Me, my husband, our daughter, our son. And the fifth: my daughter's line, which has been on the family plan since she was thirteen. She's eighteen now. In about a year and a half, she'll be at college. When she leaves, does that line get its own bill? Or does it just stay where it is, billed quietly to our credit card every month? We have never had a conversation about that line. My sister-in-law Karen came to mind. Her daughter Hannah is twenty-four — moved out two years ago, lives in a city a few states away, works a job she likes that doesn't quite cover everything. Last time we talked, Karen mentioned she was still paying Hannah's car insurance. And her phone. And, almost as an afterthought, Hannah was still on the family health plan, because why wouldn't she be, unt...
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Father's Day Around the World: 7 Traditions Worth Knowing (and 2 Worth Borrowing)

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 I was standing in the card aisle last week, holding a Father's Day card with a cartoon dad asleep in a recliner, mouth open, remote control dangling from one hand. The caption said something like, "World's Greatest Snorer." Next to it: a card with a beer can and a fishing hat. Next to that: golf clubs. Next to that: more golf clubs. I had one of those small mom-moments where you suddenly notice something you've been looking at for years without seeing. Why are Father's Day cards almost all the same joke? Mother's Day cards three weeks earlier had been full of soft watercolor flowers and paragraphs of feeling. Father's Day cards are punchlines about beer, golf, and snoring. The contrast was hard to un-see. I bought a plain card that just said "Thank you, Dad," and on the way home I started wondering — is this just an American thing? How does the rest of the world honor fathers? What I found surprised me. Father's Day looks almost ...
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I Asked My Husband How He Built That Bond With Our Kids — From Newborn to Teen. Here's What He Said.

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  A week after the morning with the phone, I went back to the garage. He was changing something on the daughter's car — I didn't know what, I never know what. The hood was up. The radio was on low. I sat on the step with a fresh cup of coffee and watched him for a few minutes before I said anything. "So," I said. "What do you actually do?" He laughed. He has a particular kind of laugh for questions he doesn't think need answering — quiet, half-puzzled. Then he stood up, wiped his hands, and thought about it for a second. "I don't know," he said. "The same thing I've always done." I told him I wanted to know what that was. Not just now — every age. From the newborn weeks all the way through the two kids he was looking at across the dinner table that night. He thought about it. Then he answered. The newborn weeks: showing up for the boring parts "I changed diapers," he said. "That's it. That...
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